So being in rehab for two months, has opened me up to exploring my character deflects and working on them. Just recently I have decided to take a look at my problem of not minding my own business. Whenever I sniff out some gossip or drama, I feel the need to run to it, luckily it hasn't gotten me into trouble just yet, but I've come dangerously close.
A couple of weeks ago, I mentioned to a guy at a meeting that I had seen his ex at another meeting; first off that was wrong of me because the last word is ANONYMOUS, second of all when I mentioned this to him he became a bit irate, and had said that he had been trying to put that relationship behind him. Last Monday, for the first time that I know of they both showed up at the same meeting, and one of them started a fight with someone else and walked out yelling at some third party from the meeting. I proceeded to ask the one who was still at the meeting if he knew what the hell that was about, and in the midst of him saying that he didn't know I was totally overwhelmed by the fact that it was really non of my business. I have stuck my nose in places where it didn't belong for too long, and it has never brought me anything but drama.
So having made this self realization I have decided to work on it as much as I can, and to just mind my own business.
9 years ago
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